Oleh: Muhammad Wildan | 16 November 2016

WHAT IS FRIENDSHIP TO ME

WHAT IS FRIENDSHIP TO ME
Muhammad Wildan

Although we may have a lot or even thousand friends, we may have difficulties to define what friendship is. Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It is not something you learn in school. But if you haven’t learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven’t learned anything. Many people said that “a friend in need is a friend indeed.” It reminds me of a good quote:
“I would rather walk with a friend in the dark, than alone in the light.”
― Helen Keller

Some other people may say that friend would only last for a certain period, but for me a friend is forever relationship. I do agree with people said “there is no ex-friend”. We may loose our friend “physically” because they died or live in unreachable areas, they are still our friends. Even, don’t loose even any single of your friends. It may be true, but a true friend is who care about small things of you; asking your daily life or even ask you such silly things.

The below conversation may express the true friendship:

“Piglet sidled up to Pooh from behind.
“Pooh!” he whispered.
“Yes, Piglet?”
“Nothing,” said Piglet, taking Pooh’s paw. “I just wanted to be sure of you.”
― The House at Pooh Corner ―

In Islam, we may define friendship as ukhuwwah. Qur’an as a holy scripture also defines that someone may sacrifice themselves for the sake of friends. Therefore, it is true that friendship sometimes take a lot of expenses for his friends.

Below quotes may define more precise what is the meaning of friendship:

Kadang2 Sahabat yang suka TRAKTIR kita makan, bukan karena mereka BERKELEBIHAN tapi karena mereka meletakkan Persahabatan MELEBIHI Uang …

Kadang2 Sahabat yang memohon MAAF dahulu setelah pertengkaran bukan karena mereka SALAH, tapi karena mereka MENGHARGAI Orang di Sekeliling Mereka …

Kadang2 Sahabat yang selalu SMS dan WA ke anda, bukan karena mereka gak ada kerjaan tapi karena Mereka INGAT pd ANDA …

Suatu Hari, kita semua akan TERPISAH, kita akan TERKENANG Obrolan2 yang pernah ada.
HARI berganti HARI …
BULAN berganti BULAN …
TAHUN berganti TAHUN …

Suatu Hari kita akan melihat dan teringat foto-foto atau kenangan kita…
Dan kita tersenyum dgn Air Mata yang tidak kelihatan karena Hati ini terusik dgn Kata2 yang sayu:
DENGAN MEREKALAH ADA HARI-HARI YANG INDAH DALAM HIDUPKU.

Persahabatan Tidak Memanfaatkan.
Persahabatan Tidak Menghitung Untung Rugi.
Persahabatan berlandaskan Hati Yg MURNI & TULUS.
Persahabatan Tidak LEKANG Dimakan Zaman.
Pada Waktu Sebagian Besar Orang cuma memperhatikan KESUKSESAN Anda, tapi ada Sebagian Kecil Orang yg peduli akan kondisi KESEHATAN Anda, maka itulah Persahabatan Yg Baik.
Teman2, meskipun tidak sering BERTEMU, tetapi selalu DIINGAT, Itulah SAHABAT.
Seorang SAHABAT tidak akan berpikiran NEGATIF, tapi Selalu POSITIF.

Teruntuk teman-temanku…


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